[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.amoya.cz\/romeo-a-julie-aneb-co-kdyz-rodice-neschvaluji-vaseho-partnera\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.amoya.cz\/romeo-a-julie-aneb-co-kdyz-rodice-neschvaluji-vaseho-partnera\/","headline":"Romeo a Julie aneb Co kdy\u017e rodi\u010de neschvaluj\u00ed va\u0161eho partnera?","name":"Romeo a Julie aneb Co kdy\u017e rodi\u010de neschvaluj\u00ed va\u0161eho partnera?","description":"Idylkou dne\u0161n\u00ed doby, konkr\u00e9tn\u011b vztahov\u00e9ho sv\u011bta je dozajista velik\u00e1 spokojen\u00e1 rodina. V\u0161ichni \u010dlenov\u00e9 se navz\u00e1jem miluj\u00ed a respektuj\u00ed, nikdy se neh\u00e1daj\u00ed, navz\u00e1jem si v\u017edy vych\u00e1zej\u00ed vst\u0159\u00edc a berou ohled na sv\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy. Naprosto se shoduj\u00ed v tom, jak \u017e\u00edt, co d\u011blat, co je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 a co nen\u00ed. Opravdu je to bohu\u017eel jen poh\u00e1dka. Realita je […]","datePublished":"2019-06-12","dateModified":"2023-05-04","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.amoya.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.amoya.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4860d213c5bedfa07ff2b166ff7b069759f9dbf79eae813578c75f9f8cb939b7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4860d213c5bedfa07ff2b166ff7b069759f9dbf79eae813578c75f9f8cb939b7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"amoya.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.amoya.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a347958_w2156_t1562486049.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.amoya.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a347958_w2156_t1562486049.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.amoya.cz\/romeo-a-julie-aneb-co-kdyz-rodice-neschvaluji-vaseho-partnera\/","wordCount":637,"articleBody":" Idylkou dne\u0161n\u00ed doby, konkr\u00e9tn\u011b vztahov\u00e9ho sv\u011bta je dozajista velik\u00e1 spokojen\u00e1 rodina. V\u0161ichni \u010dlenov\u00e9 se navz\u00e1jem miluj\u00ed a respektuj\u00ed, nikdy se neh\u00e1daj\u00ed, navz\u00e1jem si v\u017edy vych\u00e1zej\u00ed vst\u0159\u00edc a berou ohled na sv\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy. Naprosto se shoduj\u00ed v tom, jak \u017e\u00edt, co d\u011blat, co je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 a co nen\u00ed.   Opravdu je to bohu\u017eel jen poh\u00e1dka. Realita je pon\u011bkud jin\u00e1. P\u0159esto\u017ee \u010dleny rodiny spojuj\u00ed stejn\u00e9 genetick\u00e9 informace, prost\u0159ed\u00ed, ve kter\u00e9m \u017eij\u00ed, a snad i n\u00e1zory na sv\u011bt, nebo alespo\u0148 na n\u011bkter\u00e9 jeho \u010d\u00e1sti, m\u016f\u017ee zde doch\u00e1zet ke spoust\u011b oblast\u00ed, ve kter\u00e9m se jejich uva\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed rozch\u00e1z\u00ed. V\u011bt\u0161inou se jedn\u00e1 o to, co chceme v \u017eivot\u011b d\u011blat a s k\u00fdm chceme \u017e\u00edt. Jsme-li \u0161\u0165astlivci, nech\u00e1vaj\u00ed na\u0161i rodi\u010de tato rozhodnut\u00ed na n\u00e1s a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 n\u00e1m nezasahuj\u00ed do na\u0161eho sm\u011b\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud v\u0161ak nesd\u00edlej\u00ed stejn\u00e9 p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed a maj\u00ed-li dokonce pocit, \u017ee v\u00ed l\u00e9pe ne\u017eli my, co je pro n\u00e1s dobr\u00e9, pak m\u016f\u017eeme m\u00edt po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00fd probl\u00e9m. Bavme se nyn\u00ed o t\u00e9matu partnerstv\u00ed. P\u0159esto\u017ee modern\u00ed psychologie n\u00e1m \u010dasto tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee si vyb\u00edr\u00e1me sv\u00e9ho \u017eivotn\u00edho partnera podle na\u0161ich rodi\u010d\u016f, v\u011bt\u0161inou maj\u00ed tedy mnoho spole\u010dn\u00e9ho a logicky by si m\u011bli rozum\u011bt, neb\u00fdv\u00e1 to na denn\u00ed po\u0159\u00e1dku. Jsou situace, kdy je tento v\u00fdb\u011br sp\u00ed\u0161e opa\u010dn\u00fd extr\u00e9m a n\u00e1\u0161 druh je opakem na\u0161\u00ed matky nebo na\u0161eho otce.  Co tedy d\u011blat v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee jsou rodi\u010de s na\u0161\u00edm v\u00fdb\u011brem nespokojeni a d\u00e1vaj\u00ed n\u00e1m to otev\u0159en\u011b najevo? 1. Zkuste se v\u017e\u00edt do jejich role. P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejte o tom, co byste si mysleli o sv\u00e9m partnerovi, kdybyste byli na jejich m\u00edst\u011b a co by se v\u00e1m na n\u011bm nel\u00edbilo. 2. Stejn\u011b tak p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejte o tom, co m\u00e1 s nimi spole\u010dn\u00e9ho a na \u010dem by se dalo stav\u011bt v r\u00e1mci budov\u00e1n\u00ed kladn\u00e9ho vztahu mezi nimi. 3. Bu\u010fte objektivn\u00ed. Jste-li zamilovan\u00ed a m\u00e1te r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9 br\u00fdle, nejsp\u00ed\u0161 by bylo adekv\u00e1tn\u00ed, zjistit, co si nap\u0159. o va\u0161em p\u0159\u00edteli mysl\u00ed va\u0161i p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9, kolegov\u00e9, nebo i sourozenci. Z\u00edskejte objektivn\u00ed zp\u011btnou vazbu a pokud bude hodn\u011b v rozporu s n\u00e1zorem rodi\u010d\u016f, m\u00e1te skoro vyhr\u00e1no \u2013 nejste to vy, kdo zkresluje jeho vlastnosti, ale oni. A to je u\u017e n\u011bco, s \u010d\u00edm se d\u00e1 pracovat. 4. Iniciujte spole\u010dn\u00e1 setk\u00e1n\u00ed. Sna\u017ete se \u010dleny rodiny a sv\u00e9ho vyvolen\u00e9ho sbl\u00ed\u017eit, naj\u00edt aktivity, kter\u00e9 by je mohly bavit a p\u0159i kter\u00fdch by t\u0159eba mohli naj\u00edt i spole\u010dnou \u0159e\u010d. 5. Sna\u017ete se d\u00e1t dohromady d\u016fvody, pro\u010d se sv\u00fdm partnerem jste a podat to rodi\u010d\u016fm jako fakt, kter\u00fd mus\u00ed respektovat. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to l\u00e9pe pochop\u00ed ve chv\u00edli, kdy jim sd\u011bl\u00edte, co je pro v\u00e1s podstatn\u00e9. 6. Uv\u011bdomte si, \u017ee v\u00fdb\u011br partnera je opravdu va\u0161e soukrom\u00e1 v\u011bc. I tehdy, kdy\u017e m\u00e1te s rodi\u010di skv\u011bl\u00fd vztah a jejich n\u00e1zor je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd, vy jste ta osoba, kter\u00e1 s n\u00edm \u017eije. Proto je neospravedl\u0148ujte, a pokud ani po urputn\u00e9 snaze v\u0161echny z\u00fa\u010dastn\u011bn\u00e9 propojit a p\u0159isp\u011bt k jejich pozitivn\u00edmu vztahu, se nic z toho neda\u0159\u00ed, nen\u00ed to va\u0161e chyba. Nejsp\u00ed\u0161 jste ud\u011blali v\u0161e, co \u0161lo, a d\u00e1l u\u017e je to na nich.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          2\/5 - (2 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Romeo a Julie aneb Co kdy\u017e rodi\u010de neschvaluj\u00ed va\u0161eho partnera?","item":"https:\/\/www.amoya.cz\/romeo-a-julie-aneb-co-kdyz-rodice-neschvaluji-vaseho-partnera\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]